{ The Importance of a Relationship with your Photog }
Written by Alixandra Gould, Toronto Wedding Photographer
There can be dozens of vendors taking part in your wedding—limo drivers, caterers, florists, dress designers, cupcake vendors, you name it—but unless you have a Day Of Coordinator, the only one who will be with you from start to finish on the big day is your photographer!
Here are five reasons why it’s important to have a great rapport.
1. Your photographer is going to be a big part of your day—they’ll be with you while you’re getting ready, in the car with you as you go to the ceremony, and interacting with your guests during the reception—so it’s better that you like them! Think about it, you wouldn’t want that guest that you had to invite but actually find kind of annoying following you around all day, so the same should apply to your photographer. If you get a great one, they can add a whole other element of fun to the day.
2. Much like with your future spouse, trust is a vital part of a your relationship with your photographer. Your photographer knows how to get the great shot, but they need you to be able to let go a little and follow their lead. Even though a certain suggestion they give you about how to place your feet, hold your hand on your face, etc. may seem a bit odd, just go with it. The results will be amazing! If you don’t get the sense that you can trust them, book someone else.
3. Feeling comfortable is equally as important. In order to get those candid looking, natural shots, there needs to be a relaxed subject in front of the camera. Sometimes you’ll be directed to do awkward poses that make you feel a little silly, but if you’re comfortable with the person behind the camera, it’ll make the whole process easier. You also need to feel comfortable enough to draw the line with certain directions, and say no.
4. You’ll have a ton of questions along the way—questions about locations, timing for photos, services offered—and you are 100% entitled to ask them all. Your photographer should be there to pick up the phone and answer emails, because being reassured that everything is going smoothly will just make the whole day seem that much less stressful.
5. If you’re getting married, chances are that you may need a photographer in the future as well. Maternity, newborn, anniversary, and event photos of all kinds could be something you may want down the line, and having a photographer that you know and trust in your back pocket is a great asset. Often, photographers will give discounts to return customers as well. Not all wedding photographers offer these other services, but if you think you may want them at some point, maybe hire a wedding photographer who does!
:: If you haven’t booked your wedding photographer yet, check out Alix’s website and send her a note! She’s super sweet and we have no doubt you’ll love getting to know her as much as we have!
